Even if you are looking towards marriage, it can be better to hold off on more serious activities until a couple of dates to make sure you both feel the relationship is moving in the right direction. Be open and talk about your ideals. I'm a nevermo, but I married a then TBM girl, so maybe my perspective will be of help to you. Once you both die, you will not be married in the afterlife and she will get assigned to be the polygamous wife of someone else. I have days when I feel like I don't want to do this anymore, but then I go through old pictures and letters and to remind myself that we had it figured out once, and we can figure it out again. It started making me feel very nervous and apprehensive at the thought of having a family, and having all of his time be consumed by his work. I feel like now more than ever, I am expected to just not have an opinion about anything or even a say in how we spend our time together. He later converted to her faith and was called to be a temple sealer. Really, I'm interested in this too. Have you created your Facebook Club yet.
I've been married to a cardiologist for 30 years. Do not make anything risque public. Just know that she has been indoctrinated to believe that she wont reach the highest level of heaven if she isn't married in a Mormon temple to another Mormon.
I completely agree with you. Going along with her cult might feel fine when it is just you in her, but if you have kids, it will be very different. For the first time in my life, at age twenty-seven, I am in a relationship that is good and loving and serious enough that I believe it may lead to marriage. This isn't what I expected. Though my mother never openly complained about this, I could see it in her eyes. He also doesn't let me sleep in and stay there when he leaves for work.
Based on what you have written about your GF, my opinion is that you should cut your losses and move on. These were some tips to keep in mind when dating a Mormon guy or girl. Do you want to be married in the temple. The importance of modesty. More than often, these men cheat and will trade up as soon as they start making some money. If you are only after non-serious dates and spend a great time, you should be fine with this set up. I wouldn't wish this shit on my enemy. Both independent and had the same life goals, family life plans etc. I can be part of a church family whether my spouse goes or not. Second, in my experience mormons have been some of the kindest people I've ever had the privilege to know, and they have not lived up to the cult image you describe.