Mormon women are more likely to date outside of the religion than men, but also very unlikely to convert to a different religion. Find a good man first, one that you can trust and feel comfortable building a future with, and then worry about the profession later. Accompany them and support them for as long as you can and then remind them why you joined together. It would be foolish to acquiesce a Mormon girl to drink coffee.
She needs to be, and maybe she will get there. With that same attitude they will rise up on the other side of the veil. I can no longer spend more than 30 minutes in the sun.
It takes a special person to be a doctor's spouse. I also think he is not used to anyone telling him "no" or going against his opinion. I have been understanding of the demands of his career for many years, but I have come to realized that I'm not happy living this way. A shitty sex life, potentially. I have been on both sides of this situation, and I know how much it sucks to feel like you're doing everything you can to make it as easy and convenient as possible for the other person to spend time with you, but theyre still not seeing you all that much, and you think they should be able to give you a little more. She will want her kids blessed, baptized, taking temple trips to baptize for the dead, hold the priesthood, a bishop will ask you sons and daughters if they masterbate and punish them if they do, etc.
There are so many potential problems they would fill a book. With minimal support on my side and going against everything I had grown up learning, I had to trust my relationship with God. It is highly likely that she will pressure you to convert, and if you resist, she may resent you for being the barrier to her being sealed to her children. We are now in Residency, have moved each year and started a new adventure each year since marriage.
